• Nov 30, 2024
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The Ultimate Guide to Choosing the Right Bed for Your Child

Three questions decide this, and none of them is about style.

  1. How big is the room?
  2. How old is the child, and are they six yet?
  3. Does anyone else need to sleep in there?

Answer those and the shortlist is usually two or three beds. Everything else is preference.


Start with the room

Measure before you look at anything. Two numbers matter:

Floor space. A standard single bed is 190 x 90cm and needs clear space around it. In a typical UK box room at roughly 2.1 x 3m, a bed plus a wardrobe and a chest of drawers leaves almost no floor left.

Ceiling height. This decides whether a raised bed is even possible. Your child needs to sit up on the top surface without their head near the ceiling. For a full-height high sleeper, allow at least 2.3m. Sloped ceilings and loft conversions usually rule them out.

If floor space is the problem, go up. If ceiling height is the problem, stay low and use storage instead.


The age rule that governs everything

The top bunk of a bunk bed, and the sleeping platform of a high sleeper or mid sleeper, are for children aged 6 and over.

This is set by BS EN 747, the British standard for bunk beds and high beds, and it isn't a guideline you work around. It exists because coordination and night-time awareness develop significantly between four and seven, not because six is a magic number.

Under 6, that leaves floor-level beds, toddler beds, and the bottom bunk of a bunk bed. Which is plenty.


Matching the bed to the situation

One child, small room, aged 6+

A high sleeper is the biggest single gain you can make. The bed goes up, and you get a desk, a wardrobe or a sofa bed underneath in the same footprint. It effectively doubles a small room.

Our best sellers here are the ones with a sofa bed underneath, because they solve two problems at once: the room works during the day, and a friend can stay over without a spare bed.

Browse high sleeper beds or read our full high sleeper guide.

One child, small room, under 6

A mid sleeper or cabin bed. Raised enough to fit drawers and storage underneath, low enough to be sensible for a younger child. Less dramatic than a high sleeper but it does the same job at a fraction of the height.

Browse mid sleepers

Two children sharing

A bunk bed, and the choice within that comes down to ceiling height and the younger child's age.

  • Standard bunk if both are 6+ and the ceiling allows it
  • Low bunk if the ceiling is low or sloped, or the younger child is under 6 and will be on the bottom. See our guide to low bunk beds
  • Bunk with a trundle if there's a third child, or sleepovers happen regularly
  • Triple bunk or family bunk for three, or where the bottom bunk needs to be a small double

Browse bunk beds

One child, but friends stay over

A guest bed with a trundle. Looks like a single bed, pulls out into two. Takes up one bed's worth of floor space the rest of the time, which is the whole point.

Browse guest and trundle beds

Moving out of a cot

A toddler bed, low to the floor with side rails, or go straight to a standard single if the room allows. Plenty of families skip the toddler bed entirely and use a single with a guard rail, which saves a purchase.

Browse toddler beds

Teenagers

The requirements change. Desk space matters more than play space, and a continental single at 90 x 200cm gives an extra 10cm of length that a growing teenager will use.

A high sleeper with a full-width desk works well here, and so does a standard single with proper storage. See our guide to teenage beds for small rooms.


When not to buy a raised bed

Worth saying, because it's the mistake we'd rather you didn't make.

  • The child is under 6. No exceptions on the top surface.
  • The ceiling is under about 2.3m, or sloped above where the bed would go.
  • Your child sleepwalks, or has coordination or balance difficulties.
  • You'll be making the bed daily. Changing sheets on a top bunk is genuinely awkward, and it's the complaint we hear most from parents who didn't think about it beforehand.
  • The room is big enough already. If floor space isn't the problem, a raised bed adds height and complication for nothing.

Bed sizes

Size Dimensions Typical age
Cot bed 70 x 140cm Up to 4 or 5
Shorty single 75 x 175cm 4 to 8
Small single 75 x 190cm 4 upwards
Standard single 90 x 190cm 6 upwards
Continental single 90 x 200cm Teens
Small double 120 x 190cm Teens, or sharing

More detail in our kids' bed size guide.


Don't forget the mattress

Two things catch people out, and both cost money to fix afterwards.

Depth. Bunk beds and high sleepers have a maximum mattress depth, usually 15 or 16cm. Guard rails are designed to sit a set height above the mattress. Most high-street singles are 20cm or deeper, which removes that clearance. Our bunk bed mattresses are built at 15cm for this reason.

Quantity. A bunk needs two. A bunk with a trundle needs three, and the trundle usually takes a shallower mattress again, around 10cm, so it clears the frame when it slides away.

See our kids' mattress range, or read the kids' mattress guide.


Before you order

  1. Measure the room, including ceiling height directly above where the bed will go.
  2. Check the ladder projection. On some beds it adds to the length rather than the width, and it isn't always in the headline dimensions.
  3. Check access. Beds arrive flat-packed in several long boxes. Worth a thought if you've a tight turn on the stairs.
  4. Plan the assembly. Most raised beds need two adults and one and a half to three hours. We offer assembly if you'd rather not.
  5. Order the mattresses at the same time. Nothing worse than a built bed and nothing to sleep on.

If you're stuck between two options, message us. We'd rather spend five minutes helping you choose than have the wrong bed delivered.


Common questions

What age can a child have a bunk bed?
The bottom bunk suits most ages. The top bunk is for children aged 6 and over, set by BS EN 747.

What's the difference between a high sleeper and a mid sleeper?
Height. A high sleeper is high enough for a desk, wardrobe or sofa bed underneath. A mid sleeper is lower, with room for drawers and storage but not a full workspace.

Is a high sleeper worth it in a small room?
It's the single biggest gain available, provided the ceiling allows it and the child is 6 or over. You get the floor space back.

How much ceiling height do I need?
At least 2.3m for a full-height high sleeper. Measure directly above where the bed will stand, and make sure a child can sit up on the top without their head near the ceiling.

Should I buy a bed that grows with my child?
Where you can. A detachable bunk splits into two singles. A standard single with storage lasts from about six through to the teens. Both save a purchase later.

What mattress do I need?
Match the size to the bed exactly. On any raised bed, check the maximum depth first, usually 15 or 16cm.